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Parents - What to do now

As a parent your behaviour has a huge impact on how your child sees the world, how they feel about themselves and what they see as acceptable behaviour.

You have a responsibility to set a positive example and to support your child’s involvement in their chosen sport.  It is important to always:

  • treat people with dignity and respect
  • be positive and supportive
  • acknowledge the things players, coaches and umpires do well
  • be appropriate - if you disagree with a coach or an umpire, talk to them about it after the game
  • accept that everyone makes mistakes – coaches, umpires and children – they shouldn’t be ridiculed for trying

If you do ‘lose your cool’, always apologise.


  • Speak to them before it gets out of hand.

You have two options depending on the behaviour, your knowledge of those involved and how confident you feel. You could:

  • speak to them quietly
    • only do this if the behaviour has just begun, the person isn’t overly emotional and you’re comfortable taking this step
    • don’t embarrass them, argue or retaliate

  • report the behaviour to the coach or ground official.

Ignoring the behaviour won’t solve the problem.  In fact, the behaviour is likely to continue and get worse.